The decision to take out a reverse mortgage may stem from a variety of reasons, whether it’s a desire to stay in your home or the need for extra cash flow.

When facing the decision to take out a reverse mortgage or sell your home, there are a few factors to weigh. Each option has its own pros and cons and can vary depending on your particular situation.

Pros & Cons of Selling Staying with a Reverse Mortgage

Perhaps the most important thing to consider is your ultimate goal for your future living situation, whether you’re looking to downsize, relocate, or rent.

PRO: Stay at home

People overwhelmingly want to stay in their homes as they age: AARP studies consistently show that about nine in ten older Americans want to age in place.

A reverse mortgage is a financial tool that can enable you to do so. The federally-insured Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) program allows homeowners aged 62 and older to borrow against the equity they’ve built up in their home.

Borrowers retain the title to their home, and the loan term goes until you die or leave your home, as long as you maintain your property and remain current with property taxes and homeowners insurance.

You must be sure that with the reverse mortgage and other income streams that you are comfortable with these basic property expenses as to not pay them represents a default on the loan.

PRO: Increased cash flow

If you’re “house rich, cash poor,” a reverse mortgage is a tax-free way to use your home equity to supplement your income. You can opt to access your loan proceeds in a variety of formats, whether it’s a lump sum, monthly payments, or a line of credit. 

Borrowers also use their proceeds to make the home more age-friendly.  Smart borrowers use some funds to convert their landscaping into less care-intensive options, install grab bars and other features that will make the home more accessible for them later in life.

PRO: Use a HECM to move

If you are interested in a reverse mortgage but you also would like to downsize or relocate, consider the HECM for Purchase. This program allows you to buy a new home and take out a reverse mortgage within a single transaction, which can help save on time, paperwork, and closing costs.

PRO: Healthcare at home

As people age, their health needs may increase. With a reverse mortgage, your loan proceeds can be used to pay for home care and/or home modifications to help you age in place.

CON: Home maintenance

Many times as people age, they become less able to maintain a home or a property. However, with the proceeds from your loan, you have the option of hiring a company to do house cleaning or yard work.

CON: Costs of origination

There are several costs associated with taking out a reverse mortgage, including origination, appraisal, and title insurance fees. However, you are usually able to finance most of those fees into your loan, rather than needing to pay them out of pocket.

CON: The loan must be paid back

Although a reverse mortgage is very different from a “forward” mortgage, it still accrues interest over time and has to eventually be paid back. Many times, this is done by selling your home and using the proceeds to pay back the lender. Your estate may be responsible for this process, and adult children are sometimes unhappy at the prospect of not receiving the home as inheritance.

However, you or your heirs are able to keep whatever’s left from the sale of your home, once the loan is repaid.  While there is no payment due on the loan while you live in the property, borrowers may choose to make a payment in any amount at any time and this keeps the interest accrual lower and the equity higher. 

After all, you are not giving your home to the bank, you are only accruing interest on the loan and deferring payment of that interest.  If you are able to pay it and would like to do so to keep the equity higher longer, you can certainly do so.

Pros & Cons of Selling Your Home

ARLO explaining the advantages of selling home or taking a reverse mortgage

PRO: Ability to downsize

If you’re looking to downsize or move into a place that’s more suited for your lifestyle, then selling your current home may be the most appealing option.  A reverse mortgage might also help in this instance though because you can also use a reverse mortgage to purchase your next home.

PRO: Less responsibility

One benefit of renting rather than owning is that you won’t have obligations associated with being a homeowner. Those obligations include property maintenance and home repairs along with related taxes and insurance.

CON: Moving

The process of moving is time consuming, often expensive, and rarely fun. If you do sell your house, you may need to hire movers to help you pack and organize your belongings and transport them to your new residence, where everything needs to be unpacked. 

There are costs associated with listing and selling your home that many people do not consider.  Just as there are costs associated with obtaining a reverse mortgage, according to While the average costs to pay a real estate agent tend to hover around 5 or 6%, when you factor in all the costs associated with the sale (staging, repairs, relocating, etc.), the true cost is closer to 10%.

CON: Ongoing rent expense

If you end up renting after selling your home instead of buying another one, you’ll need to pay rent each month—and it’s possible that rent may increase as time goes on, presenting a variable cost. Alternately, you may not be able to renew your lease and be forced to move again.  Rents have increased in recent years tremendously and many established homeowners do not like the rental options available to them. 

An apartment may be less expensive than a single family residence, but it is a very different lifestyle.  And if you are in an area where rents are $1,500 to $2,000 per month, you could be paying $24,000 per year in rents which can also cut into the money you set aside from your sale after many years of renting.  In 10 years, that would be $240,000 paid in rents to someone else.

Top FAQs


What is more expensive: costs of a reverse mortgage or selling your home?

You need to do your homework to determine the comparison for what the costs would be for your circumstances. While most reverse mortgages are not the least expensive loans available, some can be had with very few fees. Some sales can be done “by owner” where no commissions are paid while others cost home sellers up to 6% of the sales price of the home. And then the cost of the move itself is often very costly when you consider other sales costs, taxes, moving fees, fees to establish residency at a new address, etc. When you add up all the costs of the sale of a residence, the move and the procurement of a new residence, the costs can be quite substantial.

When is selling your home a better idea than taking a reverse mortgage?

There are times when selling a home is more advantageous than taking a reverse mortgage and it usually depends on the circumstances and goals of the homeowner. Does the current home no longer meet your needs? Is it too big or does the style prohibit you from using the home to its fullest potential (i.e., it is a two-story home and you have mobility issues)? Is the home too big or does the location no longer work for you (would you like to move to be near family, doctors, etc.)? A reverse mortgage cannot resolve those issues. But one thing you may consider is that reverse mortgages are also available as purchase transactions. If you feel that a sale is in your future but don’t feel that you can buy your next home outright and do not want to make mortgage payments or just don’t want to use all your available cash to buy your next home, you may be able to use a purchase reverse mortgage for that purchase.

When would taking a reverse mortgage be smarter than selling home?

When you still like your home, but you want or need some extra money without a monthly mortgage payment, a reverse mortgage is a viable option. It does not affect your taxes so if you have a low property tax base now, getting a reverse mortgage will allow you to keep your lower taxes that might be increased by moving into a newer or more expensive property.

Are there advantages as a senior to relocate during retirement?

There are always possible advantages, depending on your situation. Many people find that their beloved home no longer meets their needs in one way or another. Perhaps it is too big, it is no longer near their family or friends, the yard is too much for them to keep up with, the maintenance on an older home is too great, or any other number of situations that now make the home in which they have felt so comfortable for so long now seem too much. A relocation, as daunting as it may seem can be a wonderful thing for many borrowers. There are so many 55+ communities that have smaller, more manageable homes that feature amenities that are perfect for older homeowners. Seniors can move closer to friends and families to gain the support network they may have lost in their current location. Oftentimes, a move that is a downsize (both residence and lot) allows senior homeowners to use acquired equity to buy newer or more amenity rich smaller homes that better serve the homeowner in a preferred location.

Are there any tax consequences when selling a house vs taking a reverse mortgage?

Property taxes may be affected by moving to a new property or you may be able to transfer your tax base to your new property. Income taxes keep changing the rules regularly and we would not advise you ever about any possible tax benefits or ramifications about selling or closing a loan. The one thing we would do is advise you to consult with your trusted tax professional to get tax advice based on the current property and income tax laws in effect before making any decisions.