A reader recently shared their skepticism about reverse mortgages, saying:

“I’ve read a lot about reverse mortgages, and it seems they’re more for the bank’s benefit than yours.  They make it sound like they’re helping, but in reality, you’re giving away your home for a low price.  If you get a reverse mortgage and pass away soon after, your home could be lost, and your family won’t be able to keep it, even with a will.”

We agree with one point: reverse mortgages aren’t for everyone.  But it’s important to separate fact from fiction, so let’s clear up these common misconceptions.

ARLO uncovers truth of reverse mortgages

1.  The Truth About Ownership: The Title is Always Yours

Contrary to popular belief, a reverse mortgage does not mean selling your home to the bank.  You remain the owner and keep the title.  If you pass away, the title transfers to your heirs—not the bank.

Here’s how it works:

  • The loan becomes due only when the borrower moves out permanently or passes away.
  • Your heirs can choose to pay off the loan and keep the house, or they can sell the property to settle the loan.

The claim that a reverse mortgage automatically results in losing your home is simply not true.

2.  Flexible Options for Funds

One of the best features of a reverse mortgage is the flexibility in how you receive funds:

  • Lump sum: Access your money upfront.
  • Monthly payments: Get consistent income to cover expenses.
  • Line of credit: Withdraw funds only when needed, paying interest only on what you use.

For example, if you borrow $10,000 from a $100,000 line of credit, you’ll pay interest on only $10,000—not the full amount.  If you pass away soon after, your family only owes the outstanding balance plus minimal interest, not the entire home.

3.  You Still Own Your Home

When you sign a reverse mortgage, you’ll complete a Deed of Trust or Mortgage Agreement, just like with any other home loan.  This secures the loan but does not transfer ownership to the lender.

The myth that the bank “takes your home” stems from misunderstandings or inaccurate anecdotes.  Misinformation like this can cause unnecessary fear.

4.  Counseling Ensures You’re Informed

HUD requires all reverse mortgage applicants to receive counseling from approved, independent agencies.  This step ensures you understand the terms, responsibilities, and benefits before making any commitments.

If you’re unsure whether a reverse mortgage is right for you, reach out to resources like HUD, AARP, or the National Reverse Mortgage Lenders Association (NRMLA) for accurate information.

Reverse Mortgages: True or False

TrueFalse
You retain the title to your home.The lender takes ownership of your home.
The loan is repaid when the borrower sells the home or passes away.You must make monthly payments to the lender.
You can receive funds as a lump sum, monthly payments, or a line of credit.You only receive a one-time payment.
Reverse mortgages are regulated by the federal government.Reverse mortgages are unregulated and risky.
Borrowers must meet certain age and property criteria.Everyone is eligible for a reverse mortgage.
The amount you can borrow depends on age, home value, and interest rates.You can borrow the full value of your home regardless of other factors.
This chart contrasts the actual truths against common myths and misunderstandings surrounding reverse mortgages.

Top FAQs About Reverse Mortgages

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How do reverse mortgages work?

A reverse mortgage is a loan that allows a homeowner to borrow money using their home as collateral without the burden of having to make a monthly mortgage payment.  This allows homeowners to access home equity without increasing their monthly expenses.  The proceeds on a reverse mortgage can be used for whatever purpose the borrower chooses.  The funds can be accessed via a line of credit, scheduled monthly payments, cash advances, or a combination of these options.
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Is a reverse mortgage a scam?

A reverse mortgage is not a scam.  It is simply a loan that works in the opposite or “reverse” of a traditional loan.  Instead of making monthly payments every month over a specified timeframe to pay the loan off, all interest and payments are deferred until the loan reaches maturity.  This means the balance on the loan will increase over time rather than decrease because you are not making a mortgage payment.
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When is a reverse mortgage a good idea?

Several instances exist when a reverse mortgage is a good idea for a homeowner.  One of those is payment relief.  Suppose your current mortgage is too expensive to afford in retirement.  In that case, the reverse mortgage may be the perfect solution to eliminating that expense from your budget to facilitate your retirement goals.  Other instances include cash out for home remodel, additional funds for payment of taxes and home repairs in the future, preserving retirement assets such as 401K, IRA, and other savings, and sometimes to improve overall quality of life.
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Do you pay interest on a reverse mortgage?

A reverse mortgage is, in fact, a loan, and therefore, interest is charged on a reverse mortgage.  However, you are not paying the interest on a monthly or yearly basis like you would with a traditional mortgage.  The interest on the reverse mortgage is added to the balance and is not paid until the loan is paid off by sale, refinance, or other means.
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What are the drawbacks of taking a reverse mortgage?

The downside of a reverse mortgage is that the closing costs can be higher than those of a traditional loan, the property must be your primary residence, the loan is not assumable, and there may be less equity to leave to your heir as an inheritance.  On the Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) program, there is an initial mortgage insurance premium charged by HUD, which is 2% of the property value or max claim (whichever is less), which leads to higher costs for these loans than a traditional loan.  It should be noted, however, that proprietary reverse mortgages have comparable costs and sometimes less than a traditional loan.  When you have a reverse mortgage, the property must be your primary residence, so if you have a reverse mortgage and want to move out of your home without selling it, you would have to pay off the reverse mortgage before moving out.  When a homeowner dies with a traditional loan, the heir can assume the loan and continue making payments to keep it in good standing.  With a reverse mortgage, the loan becomes due and payable upon the last surviving borrower leaving the home permanently, so the heir cannot assume the reverse mortgage and must address it via selling the property, completing their own refinance of the loan, or paying it off by other means.  Lastly, when you have a reverse mortgage, your balance increases over time since you do not have to make a mortgage payment.  This can result in less equity in your home over time and, therefore, less of an inheritance for your heir.
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If a person has a reverse mortgage and has no home equity left, do they have to move out?

With a reverse mortgage, you can continue to live in the home for life, regardless of whether there is still equity in the home.  This is one of the appealing aspects of the loan.  If there is equity, it belongs to the homeowner or their heirs.  However, if they outlive their equity, they can still live in the home for life, no matter how negative the loan balance becomes.  The lender or HUD cannot seek repayment from other assets or heirs.  In fact, if the heirs wish to retain the home after the borrower passes away, they can keep the home by paying off the loan at the amount owed or 95% of the current market value, whichever is less.  Therefore, not only is the borrower not required to move, but the family can also retain the home and settle the loan for less than the total amount owed if the loan balance exceeds the home’s value.  Alternatively, they can choose to walk away without owing anything.

Final Thoughts

A reverse mortgage can be a valuable tool for the right homeowner, but it’s not a one-size-fits-all solution.  The key is education and understanding the facts before making a decision.

If you’re considering a reverse mortgage, use our reverse mortgage calculator to explore your options or call us at (800) 565-1722.  We’re here to help you make an informed choice.