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“My wife is Under 62, can I still do a reverse mortgage?”

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3 min read Fact Checked HUD-Lender #26031-0007 14 comments

I am 68 years of age, married my wife about three years age. I had my house before I got married. My wife is 54, can I still do a reverse mortgage? And if so how will it affect her? Her name is not on the deed. -Gregory N.


Firstly, let me say that as of August 4, 2014, this is completely different than it used to be and so anything you read that is dated prior to this time is no longer applicable.  The internet is a wonderful place to get information, but unfortunately, old information is often still available in archives that are still available on searches and this is one of those areas that can be confusing if you compare old information to the current without realizing it’s changed.

Prior to August 4th of this year, borrowers over 62 with spouses who were not yet 62 years of age could obtain a reverse mortgage and the non-borrowing spouse was not on the title and therefore not considered in the calculations.


Change in Spousal Rights 

“My wife is Under 62, can I still do a reverse mortgage?”

The loan was called due and payable when the older spouse permanently left the home, giving the non-borrowing spouse full rights to inherit the property and dispose of the property or refinance it however they saw fit, but if they were unable to refinance the property at that time, it forced them to sell the home.

Depending on the amount of equity left at that time, it could be a doubly disastrous event, losing a spouse and having to move out of the family home because they could not qualify for a new loan in their own name.  However, that has now changed.  As of August 4, 2014, borrowers with spouses not yet 62 can now do a reverse mortgage without their spouse under different rules and under different guidelines.

It still works the same way, your spouse would not be on title to the property at the time you close the loan and would still be a “non-borrowing spouse”.  She would not have the same rights on the reverse mortgage that you do in that if you were to pass while there was still money available on the line of credit, she would not be able to access that existing line.

However, the biggest differences are that the spouse of the borrower now has 90 days to put the property into her name and then can stay in the home for the rest of her life as well.  This is a protection for the spouse that was not previously available.  The spouse can apply for her own reverse mortgage when she reaches the age of 62 and any funds available would then be accessible to the spouse under their own program.

In order to be eligible to stay in the home, the spouse must live continuously in the home and as previously stated, transfer the property into her name within 90 days (which means that they must be your only heir to the property).  One thing that borrowers must realize is that since a reverse mortgage allows them to live in the home for the rest of their lives without having to make a payment, bringing spouses under the age of 62 into the equation will also lower the amount of funds available to the borrower under the program.

However, this will allow you to get a reverse mortgage and protect your 54-year-old spouse as well.


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14 Comments on this Article
  1.   Penny M.
    July 24th, 2023
    Hi Arlo,
    I am 65 and have a home in my name only, but I am married, and he's 58. We live in Texas. Can I still get a reverse mortgage?
    Reply to Penny
    • Michael Branson Michael Branson
      July 25th, 2023
      Hello Penny,
      Unfortunately, Texas laws are stringent about one spouse getting a reverse mortgage on a property where they reside without including the other spouse. We cannot exclude one spouse to complete the loan, and both spouses must be 62 or over when the property is in Texas. Also, it is a moot point now because you could not get the loan with a married partner for 4 more years until he turns 62 as well, but at that time, you would both need to be on title and the loan, even if you owned the home before the marriage. Texas is one of a few states that are very strict on heirship laws. They protect spouses from being left out in the cold if something should happen to the other spouse (and they do not differentiate between husband and wife).
      Reply to Michael
  2.   Gloria O.
    December 5th, 2022
    Hi Arlo,
    I will be 62 in Feb. 2023, My husband will not be 62 until July 2023. We've been married since 1989. We are considering getting a reverse mortgage (our home is nearly paid off). My question is should we wait until my husband turns 62? We need the money as soon as possible as I have not worked in several months and our monthly expenses are more than my husband's income can cover. Question #2. if my husband lost his income can creditors take our home from us if/when we have a reverse mortgage on it?
    Reply to Gloria
    • Michael Branson Michael Branson
      December 5th, 2022
      Hello Gloria,
      There is good and bad about planning to get the loan before your husband turns 62. The good is that he would be considered an eligible non-borrowing spouse and that even if something happened to you, he could stay in the home for life under the terms of the reverse mortgage without having to repay the loan.
      The bad is that if you still had funds left available on the line of credit and something happened to you, while he could remain in the home, he would not have access to any remaining funds once you were no longer in the home. So, the bottom one is that if you can wait until he is 62 that would be best but if not, it is not the end of the world!
      As far as the creditor issue is concerned, you would need to speak with an attorney if you are concerned about the ability of creditors filing on your home. The reverse mortgage is a lien or loan against the house, and it will not do anything other than secure the reverse mortgage loan. Any rights the creditors have under the laws they will still have whether you have a reverse mortgage or not.
      There can be no other liens when you get a reverse mortgage so that loan would be in first position and therefore, it is not likely that any creditor would be able to take your home because they would need to pay off the reverse mortgage that is in first lien position but you really should speak to an attorney as there may be other concerns that you need to consider or that may be worrying you now that will not affect your homeownership.
      Only an attorney or other individual who is trained in this area can tell you for certain.
      Reply to Michael
  3.   Sheila
    October 24th, 2022
    Does this still apply and apply to Texas??? I Husband 69 and i am 57 and i am actually not on the note for the house right now anyway bit someone just said in texas even if I am not the borrow or on the note bc in Texas we both have to be 62.
    Reply to Sheila
    • Michael Branson Michael Branson
      October 30th, 2022
      Hello Sheila,
      In Texas, both borrowers do need to be 62 years or older to be eligible for a reverse mortgage. The laws in Texas have not changed yet to allow a married couple where one spouse is under the age of 62 to get the reverse mortgage with the under-aged spouse taking title solely and the other spouse being an eligible non-borrowing spouse (and usually being added right back to title). There has been a lot of discussion but at this time, it has not been changed.
      Reply to Michael
      •   Raul
        February 21st, 2023
        I tried for and not qualify for reverse mortgage because my wife is under 62 and we live in Texas. Why is that only in Texas not under 62 spouse unable to get a reverse mortgage? What law is this?
        Reply to Raul
        • Michael Branson Michael Branson
          February 23rd, 2023
          Hello Raul,
          Lenders cannot place a reverse mortgage on a home when one of the married individuals is not yet 62 due to the very strong heirship/homestead laws in Texas. I will attach a link here to the site that explains this according to the Texas Constitution.
          It specifically states that in order to obtain a reverse mortgage, borrowers must be 62 years of age or older for the lien to be valid. Furthermore, any loan that does not meet the full requirements as outlined in the protective homestead laws (in this case, minimum age requirement for reverse mortgages), would be considered null and void should a lender violate the requirements. It further states that the requirement is still necessary even if the spouse is not on title to the property and that the owner nor the spouse can waive these state requirements, even with mutual consent. Therefore, unless the state of Texas modifies the requirements in Section 50(a)(7), and Sections 50(k) - (r) and (v), inclusive, Article XVI, Texas Constitution, the minimum age for all borrowers and any spouses in the state of Texas is 62 years of age (even if the spouse is not on title).
          However, this is coming from the lender's standpoint as to why they will not do the loan. Lenders will not violate the Texas statutes as the loan would become null and void thereby making the loan worthless. However, I am not an attorney and cannot give you legal advice for your circumstances. If you feel you need further clarification, I recommend that you seek out an attorney to obtain any legal advice you may need or want from an individual's perspective.
          Reply to Michael
  4.   Cecelia M.
    April 27th, 2022
    My husband and I have been together for 38 years. He took a Reverse Mortgage on our house in Virginia in 2003. I was 58, he was 68 and engaged to be married. We married when I was 60. My name is not on the house, what will happen to the house when my husband dies? He does not have a Last Will and Testament and does not want to re-finance the house.
    Reply to Cecelia
    • Michael Branson Michael Branson
      April 27th, 2022
      Hello Cecelia,
      I cannot give you legal advice but I would absolutely suggest that you and your husband visit an estate attorney. I do not know the legal ramifications for a man who passes intestate in Virginia (without a will) nor do I know your legal rights in that state.
      I don't know the rules about common law marriages in Virginia but I do not believe they exist which means that you may not have any rights to the home even if you were with your husband for 19 years before he took the reverse mortgage. If he has children from a prior marriage, that could make the situation even more murky if he passes with no will.
      I think you need to impress upon him that at 87 he needs to realize that you need to be sure that your future is also secure. Even adding you to title at this time (and I don't know why it wasn't done before now) won't really protect you. If you were married at the time he closed the loan, you would be protected under the HUD rules for eligible non-borrowing spouses just by getting you on title now but since you were not married at the time, you are not eligible for deferral of the due on sale clause.
      Putting you on title would still allow you access to any equity in the home should you need to sell but the whole idea is to try to resolve it so you can remain in the home come what may. The only way to ensure that a reverse mortgage loan will not be called due on his passing would be to refinance it with both names now on title and on the new loan (if that's even possible). Otherwise, one would think he would want to do anything possible to be sure you had some coverage with the title should something happen to him.
      If your husband is unwilling to visit an estate attorney with you, you may need to consider a trip on your own.
      Reply to Michael
  5.   Bernard
    January 28th, 2022
    Recently divorced judge says sell house or have wife buy me out. Can we get reverse mortgage? I am 66, she is 60.
    Reply to Bernard
    • Michael Branson Michael Branson
      February 2nd, 2022
      Hello Bernard,
      I'm not 100% sure what you're asking but I think you're saying that you are now divorced and your wife is getting the home and she is 60, correct? Because if you are leaving, your age doesn't matter. She is not old enough for the HUD HECM program but there are some proprietary or private programs that go down to a lower age that may work for your needs.
      Reply to Michael
      •   Yolanda P.
        December 20th, 2022
        Hi Arlo,
        I live in California. My husband and I have been married more than 20 years. He is 70 years old, and I am 60 years old. We both are on the title for our home. Are we eligible for a reverse mortgage even if our home is not completely paid off?
        Reply to Yolanda
        • Michael Branson Michael Branson
          December 21st, 2022
          Hello Yolanda,
          You are not old enough to be on the loan, but you can be an eligible non-borrowing spouse. This means that if something happens to your husband, you will not have access to any money left on the line of credit (if any unused funds were still available when he passed or was no longer living in the home), but you still could remain in the home under the terms of the loan for life.
          You can always look at refinancing later if it makes sense but since you have a loan that you are looking to pay off, if there are no additional funds available after you pay off the existing loan, the fact that you are not on the loan will not adversely affect you at all.
          Reply to Michael

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