You may have heard about how a reverse mortgage can help improve your financial situation by allowing you to withdraw the equity in your home over time.

For those people meeting the 62-year-old age requirement who have substantial home equity, this can be a means to expand monthly cash flow or eliminate mortgage payments by paying off an existing mortgage through a federally insured loan.

However, there is another important time when a reverse mortgage can be a helpful tool: in a divorce.  While taking charge of which spouse will keep which assets, a reverse mortgage can relieve some financial burdens on each spouse while allowing them to live separately.

ARLO explains reverse mortgages and divorce

Reverse mortgages and living separately.

Many couples who separate later in life find themselves unable to support the costs of a home once supported by two partners now that they are independently responsible.

Here is where a reverse mortgage can come into play…

The loan allows you to choose how you withdraw the equity in the home, whether as a lump sum, a series of ongoing payments, or a combination of one spouse prefers to remain in the house but cannot meet the monthly mortgage payments, a reverse mortgage can be used to pay off the mortgage, with any remaining proceeds going to the moving spouse.

For example:

Say you have a $300,000 home with an $80,000 mortgage balance at age 72.  You can borrow a little more than $200,000, with $80,000 going to pay off the existing mortgage and the remaining $120,000 to be used however you choose.  You can even wire the funds to the moving spouse at closing.  You must remove the moving spouse from the home title, which can take place during the loan.

As with any reverse mortgage, the loan becomes due when the borrower moves from the home or passes away.  They must continue to pay property taxes and homeowners insurance over the life of the loan.  This will allow one spouse to keep the home payment free while the other can save the remaining cash.

Reverse Mortgage for Purchase

A relatively new type of reverse mortgage may also be a valuable solution for a divorcing couple.  If neither spouse wishes to remain in the home, a reverse mortgage purchase loan allows a homeowner to purchase a new home while taking out a reverse mortgage in a single transaction.

In the same way, a standard reverse mortgage can help, enabling one spouse to move to a new home through the reverse mortgage while the other can assume some of the remaining cash proceeds.  This might work particularly well in the case where the borrower is downsizing.

If you get divorced and already have a reverse mortgage…

When a couple with a reverse mortgage together decides to get a divorce, they must submit the divorce decree to the loan servicer.  At that point, one of the spouses will be permitted to be removed from the home title, keeping the loan in the remaining spouse’s name.

Divorce FAQs


What happens to a reverse mortgage in a divorce?

If a married couple has a reverse mortgage and goes through a divorce, there can be many different outcomes depending on how the reverse mortgage was set up and the plans for the residence.  For example, suppose both spouses were borrowers on the loan.  One will stay in the home after the divorce, and the other will move out.  In that case, the loan is still in good standing because one of the original borrowers still lives in the home as their primary residence.  If only one of the spouses was a borrower on the reverse mortgage loan, the spouse moving out of the property after the divorce, the reverse mortgage will need to be paid off either by refinance or by selling the home.

Can a reverse mortgage be taken to fund/settle the divorce payout?

Yes.  The spouse who wishes to remain in the property can apply for a reverse mortgage and use the available proceeds to pay the other spouse to complete the divorce settlement.  To accomplish this, a written agreement must be filed with the court outlining the terms.

How does my existing reverse mortgage affect my new spouse?

If a homeowner obtained a reverse mortgage before a new marriage, the new spouse was not factored into the terms of that loan.  Therefore, the spouse has no spousal protection or deferral period to remain in the home with the reverse mortgage in place if the borrowing spouse were to pass away first.  The only way to protect a new spouse is to refinance your reverse mortgage to a new one with the new spouse included in the terms.

Will a divorce cause my reverse mortgage loan to be called due and payable?

Not necessarily.  If you were a borrower on the reverse mortgage and lived in the property as your primary residence, your loan will not be called due and payable.  Suppose you were not a borrower on that loan, and you are the one who wishes to stay in the home.  In that case, you must pay off the reverse mortgage loan, or it will be due and payable after the borrowing spouse no longer occupies the property as their primary residence.

If I divorce, can I get a new reverse mortgage of my own?

Yes.  To be eligible to get your reverse mortgage after the divorce, you will need to be able to supply your divorce decree finalized with the court.  The agreement will have to have specifically awarded the property to your ex-spouse and named them solely responsible for that reverse mortgage.  Without this documentation, you cannot get a new reverse mortgage of your own.

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